NEWS 62 - 6 Comments
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Bone, that link doesn't get you all the way there. Which article is it specifically?
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Sorry. It's under "mind", then the article's title is "Theory and Practice of Masturbation"
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That is a pretty good article. I wasn't expecting it to be so rooted in actual biology - more along the lines of Roche's explanation - "men need a fantasy life!" But the guy does make some sense.
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That was pretty interesting although I still maintain men and some women need a fantasy life. As I've said before I personally have two distinct types of horniness. The I have to have sex with my partner and nothing else will do, and the I need to indulge my fantasies horny style. Both happen regularly and both need to be taken care of. Also I find masterbation to be a stress reliever as do most men I suspect. I fully believe that for most men masterbation is quite necessary and women should respect that and help to provide free range.
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I agree with Roche, re: being a stress reliever. Punching the clown almost always cures any insomnia I may be experiencing - and a quick one in the morning can be energizing, too. Odd, but true.
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I just finished the recommended reading. I found it interesting but found certain points somewhat dubious. I don't doubt that there are biological reasons behind clown punching but I wouldn't corelate them with moral or societal norms such as faithfulness in marriage or adultery. These concepts are much newer than masturbation. Sperm warfare is a valid concept in that humans have copulated with more than one partner since the beginning of time. This originally had nothing to do with "adultery". As for free range and secrecy, I know my honey needs his alone time and never purposefully try to interupt. I am not bothered by the use of pornography and I find the negative connotations implicit in the definition of pornography more disturbing than the medium itself. Sexuality isn't anything to be ashamed of. I will admit that at times I become insecure if my man seems more interested in self-pleasure than mutual pleasure. Women do need to feel that the real thing is necessary on a regular basis. Luckily my man has been able to assuage my insecurities convincingly. The best thing a man can do for his sexual relationship is to let his lady know that no matter how often he takes care of his own business, the best release comes from a joint venture.
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